I have to admit right off the bat that I grew up going to church EVERY Sunday and on Wednesday nights so you would think that I would know a thing or two about the Bible...you would think! Don't get me wrong, I know the basic stories like Adam and Eve; Noah; David and Goliath; Joseph and his coat of many colors, etc, etc. You know, basic stories that give you the basic idea of God and basic Christianity. But I have to admit that the story of Ruth, Naomi, and Boaz (found in the book of Ruth in the Old Testament) was not a story that came across my path, at least that I remember. I do recall hearing the name Boaz in church but it was referring to a city in Alabama that was known for some great outlet shopping back in the day. That's about the extent of my past with Boaz.....there is none!
So let me just cut to the chase here and tell you that Boaz has officially found his way into my life! (Thanks to Kelly Minter's study Ruth.) And he is not any ordinary guy by any stretch of the imagination!!
He's actually kinda dreamy, in a very respectful kind of way....
Let me introduce you to my new found friend/crush/role-model for my sons/ take your pick..... He is the knight in shining armor that comes to redeem Ruth and Naomi from their collective pits and distresses (such a chick-flick story line). He is a man that is not found too often in our present day world or maybe we're just too skeptical to notice.
Boaz was quite a bit older when he met Ruth. By today's standards, it would have been very similar to a 55 years old man crossing paths with a woman young enough to be his twenty-something year old daughter. (So many directions I could go here but I won't....) He actually assumed that she was married when he first laid eyes on her until he asked his foreman about her. Again, this could go in so many different directions here.
Moving on...
When Boaz greeted Ruth for the first time he was very gracious and greeted her respectfully going as far as to acknowledge their age difference in the way the he addressed her. Showing that he was not attempting to pursue her in any way. As if that was not enough, he then offered her immediate physical protection by telling her not to work in anyone else's field but his. This sounds quite antiquated now but in those days he was extending her his full protection against the threat of rape that was common against women working in the fields during the harvest season; the fact that she was a foreigner would have increased the odds of this happening as well. Again, he had not met her until this very first conversation and didn't really know much about her but yet was so kind. He had no agenda, no ulterior motive; he was just genuinely kind. Refreshing in a way...
May my two sons learn to be so kind to the girls that cross their paths, not for something in return but because it's the kind thing to do. Especially this day in age where making the unwise choice is running rampant in our schools and in our society as a whole.
Ruth continues ,for the next seven weeks, to work in Boaz's field under his protection during the harvest season. She would gather what she could carry on her own, eat at Boaz's table during "lunch break", drink from the cistern of water that was meant for the workers and then take her barley home to Naomi so that they could eat.
Eating at Boaz's table and drinking from the water cistern was another huge deal for Ruth. The field owner's table was not meant to be shared with workers or gleaners (those that picked up what the harvesters dropped while in the fields).
This simple act of kindness by Boaz on Ruth's behalf meant that she fell under his provision and protection. This act was also a public announcement to his workers as well. He used this time to tell the workers that they were not to touch her physically or reprimand her verbally again, something that being a foreigner may unfairly bring about.
Again, he did it out of pure kindness.
There's nothing profound in these scenarios it's just pure and simple kindness that we don't see much anymore. He's a strong man not ashamed of his values as you see in the beginning of the 2nd chapter of Ruth:
"a man of standing, whose name was Boaz." In this verse, standing refers to: wealth, social status,respect according to Holman. He was well know in town probably because of all three of those qualities. Sure, he probably could have gone a long way without the respect part but would he have been any different than any other land owner in Bethlehem? Who knows...but the respect is for sure an added bonus because it's not something that you just have it's earned.
He's admired by his field workers:
"Just then Boaz arrived from Bethlehem and greeted the harvesters, 'The Lord be with you!''The Lord bless you!' they called back." (Ruth 2)
His greeting to his workers shows his commitment to the Lord because it's the first thing he speaks of when he addresses them (Holman). When you look at the conversations that he has in this book, they either mention the Lord or reflect the love he has for the Lord. He's the epitome of treating others the way you want to be treated, something that Jesus lived while here on this earth.
I could talk about Boaz for hours, there's so much more I could say about him....
He's just an amazing example of what I ultimately want my boys to be and the husbands that I want for my girls.
I encourage you to get lost in the pages of Ruth, it's truly a girls story as I said it's a basic chick flick story line. As my friend puts it (so well I might add!!!): "God knew he needed a story that would help women "get it" when it comes to Jesus and what He has done for us. I do not think this was written for men. It was for all the ladies out there." I think she hit the nail on the head! It's truly a story for EVERY woman no matter the age or stage of life. So grab a cup of coffee, get comfy and enjoy!!!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Been Gone A While
Sadly, I have been away from the blog for a while. I don't really want to go into detail because that's not what this blog is about. Let's just honestly say that my very self-centered attempt at putting God in time out didn't work nearly as well as it does with my kids. He came back with a smack down that I'm still trying to recover from. This was not my first attempt in doing this hence, the smack down. So needless to say, I didn't think my heart was in the right place to post anything. I hope you'll forgive me.
Anyway, I wanted to catch you up on the Ruth study that we're doing, she has such a story to tell!! We're now 2 chapters in and loving it!!! Ruth is such an amazing woman for ALL of us regardless of our age and stage of life. She is for EVERY woman whether you are married with children, no children or single.
Last week we incorporated the movie Step Mom with Susan Sarandan and Julia Roberts into our opener. It was my attempt at bringing you a modern day example of Ruth and Naomi and I really hoped it helped you as much as it helped me. If you haven't seen this movie, you need to rent it at some point during the course of this study. I think you'll be surprised at the resemblance in characters be it ever so loose a resemblance.
We talked about the importance of having "gracious and bold speech" in hard situations that we sometimes find ourselves in. We coupled this along with the idea of weeping forward, such an amazing concept that doesn't lend itself to just one chapter- it appears again later!
Our speech....
It was gracious and bold speech on Ruth's part that kept her with Naomi on the path from Moab back to Bethlehem. Naomi tried and tried to get her to go back to Moab but Ruth just wouldn't budge regardless of what Naomi said and the tears that were shed. She finally, with gracious speech told her "Enough already!!! I'm sorry you're bitter but that's not going to keep me from caring for you and staying with you until the very end!" (These are totally my words...) It's in this instance, that Ruth looked Bitter (this is what Naomi willingly changed her name to) in the eyes and loved her despite the unlovable spirit that she exuded from every pore of her body. This is what gracious and bold speech will do for ya...it will begin to crack the bitterest of people. And then the tears will flow......
Weep and pick a direction....
Weeping is just not something that women do well at all. Often times it renders us nothing more than a heap on the couch or in a dark corner unable to do anything else but eat chocolate (or ice cream in my case) and think about the bad in the situation. "Crying and walking in a forward motion" as Kelly puts it would never cross our minds while in this state. But the more that we study and learn about Ruth and her circumstance, we learn that it is possible and is healing for so many different areas of our lives.
So the bottom line is: the next time you weep you have a choice; are you going to weep forward or weep going backward. When you weep forward with bold and gracious speech as Ruth and Naomi did, you realize that some situations require tears but they don't have to keep you from experiencing the opportunity which lies ahead for you. When you weep going backward as Orpah (she was easily convinced to go back to Moab and end her journey with Ruth and Naomi) did, you realize that some situations require tears but you would rather cry over what may be lost and allow that to keep you in the place where you currently are thus shying away from any opportunities that may come your way. Make sense?
Read Ruth chapter 1 for yourself it will help you to make sense of it all. There was so much discussed and learned from this first week that I couldn't put it all in this one post!
Anyway, I wanted to catch you up on the Ruth study that we're doing, she has such a story to tell!! We're now 2 chapters in and loving it!!! Ruth is such an amazing woman for ALL of us regardless of our age and stage of life. She is for EVERY woman whether you are married with children, no children or single.
Last week we incorporated the movie Step Mom with Susan Sarandan and Julia Roberts into our opener. It was my attempt at bringing you a modern day example of Ruth and Naomi and I really hoped it helped you as much as it helped me. If you haven't seen this movie, you need to rent it at some point during the course of this study. I think you'll be surprised at the resemblance in characters be it ever so loose a resemblance.
We talked about the importance of having "gracious and bold speech" in hard situations that we sometimes find ourselves in. We coupled this along with the idea of weeping forward, such an amazing concept that doesn't lend itself to just one chapter- it appears again later!
Our speech....
It was gracious and bold speech on Ruth's part that kept her with Naomi on the path from Moab back to Bethlehem. Naomi tried and tried to get her to go back to Moab but Ruth just wouldn't budge regardless of what Naomi said and the tears that were shed. She finally, with gracious speech told her "Enough already!!! I'm sorry you're bitter but that's not going to keep me from caring for you and staying with you until the very end!" (These are totally my words...) It's in this instance, that Ruth looked Bitter (this is what Naomi willingly changed her name to) in the eyes and loved her despite the unlovable spirit that she exuded from every pore of her body. This is what gracious and bold speech will do for ya...it will begin to crack the bitterest of people. And then the tears will flow......
Weep and pick a direction....
Weeping is just not something that women do well at all. Often times it renders us nothing more than a heap on the couch or in a dark corner unable to do anything else but eat chocolate (or ice cream in my case) and think about the bad in the situation. "Crying and walking in a forward motion" as Kelly puts it would never cross our minds while in this state. But the more that we study and learn about Ruth and her circumstance, we learn that it is possible and is healing for so many different areas of our lives.
So the bottom line is: the next time you weep you have a choice; are you going to weep forward or weep going backward. When you weep forward with bold and gracious speech as Ruth and Naomi did, you realize that some situations require tears but they don't have to keep you from experiencing the opportunity which lies ahead for you. When you weep going backward as Orpah (she was easily convinced to go back to Moab and end her journey with Ruth and Naomi) did, you realize that some situations require tears but you would rather cry over what may be lost and allow that to keep you in the place where you currently are thus shying away from any opportunities that may come your way. Make sense?
Read Ruth chapter 1 for yourself it will help you to make sense of it all. There was so much discussed and learned from this first week that I couldn't put it all in this one post!
Saturday, January 23, 2010
The Church Lady Recommends...
There wasn't a whole lot posted on the blog this week due to a crazy week with 4 kids and all that comes with that!!! Some weeks are definitely better than others for sure..
So, for Saturday's recommendation it's just one thing (drum roll, please!).....
Get a copy of Kelly Minter's study Ruth: Loss, Love & Legacy.
I know you're probably sick of this one, but I promise it's that good! It is packed full of passion, romance, hurt and healing; in short, it's truly a study for every woman regardless of your stage of life. It will speak to you in whatever circumstance you find yourself in at the moment. It is life changing if you will allow it to be!!!!
Bottom line: It will make you jump on your bed with the same excitement that you did when you were a kid! If it doesn't, you let me know.
Happy reading and check the blog from time to time as I will be posting some of the highlights of our Thursday night Bible study discussions on Ruth.
So, for Saturday's recommendation it's just one thing (drum roll, please!).....
Get a copy of Kelly Minter's study Ruth: Loss, Love & Legacy.
I know you're probably sick of this one, but I promise it's that good! It is packed full of passion, romance, hurt and healing; in short, it's truly a study for every woman regardless of your stage of life. It will speak to you in whatever circumstance you find yourself in at the moment. It is life changing if you will allow it to be!!!!
Bottom line: It will make you jump on your bed with the same excitement that you did when you were a kid! If it doesn't, you let me know.
Happy reading and check the blog from time to time as I will be posting some of the highlights of our Thursday night Bible study discussions on Ruth.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Thursday, January 21st!!!!
Bible study starts this week!!! We've got quite the little crowd forming...so exciting!!! This study is going to be one that is sure to top your favorites list, it has romance and passion for starters and a daughter-in-law who is not afraid to tell her mother-in-law to stop nagging her (I'm just sayin'!). All that to say that it grabs you from the beginning! Can you tell I'm really excited about this one?!
So, if you can join us come one come all; the more the merrier and all that stuff. We start this week at Cumberland Church at 7:00 on Thursday night. We won't discuss homework this week, it's strictly social to make sure everyone is on the same page and to meet your small groups. Oh, and it won't cost you too much, only the price of the book that you need to purchase on your own.
Email if you need any details or have questions. If you can't join us, get the study and do it on your own because it's that good. If you choose this option, check out the blog because I'll be updating it to go along with what we discuss on Thursday nights.
So, if you can join us come one come all; the more the merrier and all that stuff. We start this week at Cumberland Church at 7:00 on Thursday night. We won't discuss homework this week, it's strictly social to make sure everyone is on the same page and to meet your small groups. Oh, and it won't cost you too much, only the price of the book that you need to purchase on your own.
Email if you need any details or have questions. If you can't join us, get the study and do it on your own because it's that good. If you choose this option, check out the blog because I'll be updating it to go along with what we discuss on Thursday nights.
Saturday, January 16, 2010
The Church Lady Recommends...
As I was looking back over the last week of posts, I realized that I threw a lot at you guys (actually vomited might be a better word). So, I've decided to make my Saturday posts something called "The Church Lady Recommends". This will be a listing of all the resources that I suggest each week. Some weeks may be a lot and some weeks maybe one or two items just depending on what was posted that week.
So here goes....
1. Pick up a copy of Ruth: Loss, Love and Legacy by Kelly Minter If you can join us at Cumberland for Bible study on Thursday nights we'd love to have you, if not do it on your own because it's a GREAT study!!!
2. Love Talk for Families by Gary Chapman and Ramon Presson
It's great for dinner time conversations and helps calm the troops as well. You can purchase this online at Christianbook.com
3. Start a daily quiet time. Some very manageable suggestions are:
Believing God by Beth Moore
Whispers of Hope by Beth Moore
No Other gods by Kelly Minter
Me, Myself and Lies by Jennifer Rothschild
A note about the Beth Moore selections, many of her studies have been published in 90 day devotions which is a great way to try one of her studies without the hour a day commitment. While the devotionals can be purchased on her site, the in depth studies, if you choose that route, can only be purchased at LifeWay stores or on their online site.
If you choose to purchase from living proof, click on the store tab on the homepage and then click on the specific category that you need.
4. Donate to the relief efforts in Haiti. There are organizations listed under the Haiti link on the sidebar of the blog.
5. The Power of the Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian is a fabulous resource for praying for your husband!!! In addition to the book, you can purchase prayer cards that have specific topics and corresponding verses already printed on them. Click here to go to Stormie's site.
When you go to her site you will need to click on the bookstore tab, then click on the products tab which will pull down a menu. On the menu, click on the books tab then prayer.
I have personally used all of these resources and they are fabulous!!! They have all been valuable to me at different stages of my life.
If you can't find what you're looking for, please let me know so I can fix my mistakes!! Happy shopping!!!
So here goes....
1. Pick up a copy of Ruth: Loss, Love and Legacy by Kelly Minter If you can join us at Cumberland for Bible study on Thursday nights we'd love to have you, if not do it on your own because it's a GREAT study!!!
2. Love Talk for Families by Gary Chapman and Ramon Presson
It's great for dinner time conversations and helps calm the troops as well. You can purchase this online at Christianbook.com
3. Start a daily quiet time. Some very manageable suggestions are:
Believing God by Beth Moore
Whispers of Hope by Beth Moore
No Other gods by Kelly Minter
Me, Myself and Lies by Jennifer Rothschild
A note about the Beth Moore selections, many of her studies have been published in 90 day devotions which is a great way to try one of her studies without the hour a day commitment. While the devotionals can be purchased on her site, the in depth studies, if you choose that route, can only be purchased at LifeWay stores or on their online site.
If you choose to purchase from living proof, click on the store tab on the homepage and then click on the specific category that you need.
4. Donate to the relief efforts in Haiti. There are organizations listed under the Haiti link on the sidebar of the blog.
5. The Power of the Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian is a fabulous resource for praying for your husband!!! In addition to the book, you can purchase prayer cards that have specific topics and corresponding verses already printed on them. Click here to go to Stormie's site.
When you go to her site you will need to click on the bookstore tab, then click on the products tab which will pull down a menu. On the menu, click on the books tab then prayer.
I have personally used all of these resources and they are fabulous!!! They have all been valuable to me at different stages of my life.
If you can't find what you're looking for, please let me know so I can fix my mistakes!! Happy shopping!!!
Friday, January 15, 2010
Simple...
OK, today it's simple. Ladies, if you're married or are in a relationship, this is for you. Times are tough these days and stress levels are high for everyone it seems. SO.... pray for the man in your life!
This is something that I usually do for my husband but never with so much intensity as I have over the last few months. To put it simply, things have been a little crazy stressful at the Brady house.
Depending on the temperature of your marriage at the moment this will either be an easy task or an extremely difficult task. Trust me, I know some days are easier than others. But do it anyway, you'll be glad you did!
At the bottom of this post are the scriptures that I am currently using for my prayers for my husband, please feel free to use them if you want. If you can,find some that are more specific to what your husband is dealing with at the moment, that will make it more meaningful for you.
If you need some help in getting started go to BibleGateway. There is a search bar at the top of the page. Type in a phrase and it will give you Bible references that you can read that pertain to that particular topic. Once you find what you're looking for memorize it and pray it over your husband. Write it on the bathroom mirror or on an index card, basically where ever you'll see it and remember it!
Here are my verses:
"Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will serve before kings; he will not serve before obscure men." Proverbs 22:29
"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as for working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ that you are serving." Colossians 3:22-24
Good luck and know I'm on my knees right along side you!
This is something that I usually do for my husband but never with so much intensity as I have over the last few months. To put it simply, things have been a little crazy stressful at the Brady house.
Depending on the temperature of your marriage at the moment this will either be an easy task or an extremely difficult task. Trust me, I know some days are easier than others. But do it anyway, you'll be glad you did!
At the bottom of this post are the scriptures that I am currently using for my prayers for my husband, please feel free to use them if you want. If you can,find some that are more specific to what your husband is dealing with at the moment, that will make it more meaningful for you.
If you need some help in getting started go to BibleGateway. There is a search bar at the top of the page. Type in a phrase and it will give you Bible references that you can read that pertain to that particular topic. Once you find what you're looking for memorize it and pray it over your husband. Write it on the bathroom mirror or on an index card, basically where ever you'll see it and remember it!
Here are my verses:
"Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will serve before kings; he will not serve before obscure men." Proverbs 22:29
"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as for working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ that you are serving." Colossians 3:22-24
Good luck and know I'm on my knees right along side you!
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Cheerful givers NEEDED!!!!
I am in the middle of previewing Kelly Minter's study on Ruth for the Bible study that starts on January 21st, (shameless plug, I know!). Anyway, something caught my eye this morning that goes hand in hand with the disaster that has just rocked (no pun intended here..) Haiti.
I have hit the part in Ruth's story where she is gathering grain from Boaz's field so that she and Naomi can have food to eat. This passage hit me in a "punch me in the stomach" kinda way on many levels. So here goes....
"Up to this point we've seen Ruth as committed, loyal, hardworking, and gutsy, but she was very much at the mercy of Boaz and Naomi." In other words, Ruth is poor and doing all that she can in addition to what Boaz has provided her so that she and Naomi can have food. In today's language: they didn't have two pennies to rub together! Go with me here it's kinda complicated but stay with me...
Kelly continues...
"We've focused on the generosity of Boaz who gave of his wealth, but now we see Ruth giving out of her poverty! ...this means we all have something to give even if we're broke or broken." Ruth had brought home the grain that she had gathered PLUS her leftover grain that she didn't eat from her afternoon meal. If that doesn't hit you where it hurts, there's more...
2 Corinthians 9:7-8
"Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work."
Here's my tie do everyday life here....
So, I know that things are tight these days especially coming out of the holidays. I get that, I'm living that to be perfectly honest with you. But that being said, please pray about giving to the people in Haiti. That may not be what you want to hear from me right now because you've already heard it from countless sources already. But just hear me out for a second!!! It may be that you can only do a $1 and if that's your case then give it but don't give it out of compulsion or because it looks like the right thing to do. Do it because in your heart you know that "God loves a cheerful giver" and in the grand scheme of things we have been blessed with far more than what we need (we're all busting at the seems with all the things that we wanted or "needed").
One of my friends commented on his Facebook page that if "we donated $10 to the American Red Cross that is the cost of two Starbucks lattes" (thanks, Heath!). That puts it in perspective. Brew your coffee at home for a week instead of making your Starbucks run and donate that to Haiti. That's hard 'cause I LOVE me some Starbucks!!!! If you're one of my Sonic tea drinkin' friends...go without your happy hour tea for a week (I can feel the stares right now!!!) Every little bit helps!!! You don't have to donate wads of cash to make a difference.
So pray about it, decide your amount and then give it away!!! I've posted some links that are taking donations if you need somewhere to give. They're legit, we donate to these organizations as a family.
YOU CAN DO IT CHEERFULLY!!!!! I'll be praying for you!!!
I have hit the part in Ruth's story where she is gathering grain from Boaz's field so that she and Naomi can have food to eat. This passage hit me in a "punch me in the stomach" kinda way on many levels. So here goes....
"Up to this point we've seen Ruth as committed, loyal, hardworking, and gutsy, but she was very much at the mercy of Boaz and Naomi." In other words, Ruth is poor and doing all that she can in addition to what Boaz has provided her so that she and Naomi can have food. In today's language: they didn't have two pennies to rub together! Go with me here it's kinda complicated but stay with me...
Kelly continues...
"We've focused on the generosity of Boaz who gave of his wealth, but now we see Ruth giving out of her poverty! ...this means we all have something to give even if we're broke or broken." Ruth had brought home the grain that she had gathered PLUS her leftover grain that she didn't eat from her afternoon meal. If that doesn't hit you where it hurts, there's more...
2 Corinthians 9:7-8
"Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work."
Here's my tie do everyday life here....
So, I know that things are tight these days especially coming out of the holidays. I get that, I'm living that to be perfectly honest with you. But that being said, please pray about giving to the people in Haiti. That may not be what you want to hear from me right now because you've already heard it from countless sources already. But just hear me out for a second!!! It may be that you can only do a $1 and if that's your case then give it but don't give it out of compulsion or because it looks like the right thing to do. Do it because in your heart you know that "God loves a cheerful giver" and in the grand scheme of things we have been blessed with far more than what we need (we're all busting at the seems with all the things that we wanted or "needed").
One of my friends commented on his Facebook page that if "we donated $10 to the American Red Cross that is the cost of two Starbucks lattes" (thanks, Heath!). That puts it in perspective. Brew your coffee at home for a week instead of making your Starbucks run and donate that to Haiti. That's hard 'cause I LOVE me some Starbucks!!!! If you're one of my Sonic tea drinkin' friends...go without your happy hour tea for a week (I can feel the stares right now!!!) Every little bit helps!!! You don't have to donate wads of cash to make a difference.
So pray about it, decide your amount and then give it away!!! I've posted some links that are taking donations if you need somewhere to give. They're legit, we donate to these organizations as a family.
YOU CAN DO IT CHEERFULLY!!!!! I'll be praying for you!!!
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Practice makes a habit
I am sitting at my daughter's gymnastics practice watching them stretch, hold the "superman pose", and do some killer Pilates core strengthening exercises among other things. They do this each week all to get their bodies warmed up to practice their budding gymnastics skills. This goes on for the better part of 30 minutes before they ever get to the fun parts of getting on the beam, and swinging on the parallel bars. The class is an hour and a half, quite a long time especially when the coach yells: "no sitting down!!"
This stretching and learning, I believe, is the beginning of what a gymnast must endure if she or he desires to be the best. She must practice daily in order to move up in the ranks; to improve enough to move to the next level and that only comes when your coach approves and recommends it. (I am learning all of this as we are new to gymnastics so if you have any input on the gymnastics world please leave me a comment so that I know exactly what this insanity is that my kids have gotten me into!!) Anyway, so the quicker a gymnast improves the quicker she moves up and then the higher she moves up the more hours per week she spends at the gym perfecting her skills. So eventually to be among the best, she is spending the better part of her life at the gym and she's committed to this sport in a way she probably never thought was possible. Quite the commitment if I do say so myself!
Practice makes perfect....or does it? How about practice makes a habit that gradually ebbs and flows into a routine or a way of life? That's essentially what she's done, right? She's made gymnastics such a vital part of her life that it has become more of her life's daily routine instead of just a simple practice session that she attends each day or week.
That's kinda what God wants... He would rather you strive to practice more not to be perfect but to eventually come to the place where your practice has ebbed and flowed into a heart felt daily routine. A routine that does not have you concerned with striving for perfection but instead with sitting at the feet of true perfection! His feet.
I had a friend comment this week that she knew how to pray but didn't know how to have a quiet time. I am beginning to find that some people have been led to believe that these two things are one in the same. In my opinion, they are not. The way I see it is that there is a prayer time and a quiet time (some people may also refer to this as their devotional time). Prayer time, for me, is strictly what it sounds like, a time of prayer. But we'll discuss this later!
For me, a quiet time and how I explain it to others is this, it's a time to get into your Bible whether you pick a book to start with or you have a devotional book to guide your time. This time is going to require some effort on your part. You have to open the pages of your Bible and begin to explore what's on the inside. The pages are full of stories that you wouldn't believe unless you read them yourself! Once you begin to read it you begin to see the way that God desires for us to live out our lives. You begin to see that He had a plan when He created each one of us and that we weren't just dropped here on Earth to fend for ourselves. Isn't that a relief?! It's amazing the things you'll find when you finally pick it up and begin to read.
So how does gymnastics relate to a quiet time??
They both require practice and this practice can produce some pretty amazing results over time. Just like a beginner gymnast can't do a full layout (I don't even know what that is but it sounds really hard!) her first day in the gym, we can't experience everything there is to know about God the first time we open our Bible. It's simple, the more we get into God's Word (practice) the more we learn (or move from level to level). The more we learn scripture the more we are able to pray His words (scripture also called the written word) over the situations that are going on in our lives and the lives of those people around us. Someone once said that there is power in the spoken Word and during this season of my life I have never believed it more!
So how do I get started?
It's easy, I promise! First, find a time in your day that you can be alone without distraction. It may help to put it on your daily calendar for a while until it becomes a part of your daily activities.
Bring your Bible, a pen/pencil and a notebook (a good cup of coffee is an added bonus if you can swing it!). I would start with the Book of Proverbs because it's very easy to understand and it's divided up into 31 chapters. With 31 chapters, you can do a chapter a day for a whole month which is just about how long it takes to incorporate something into your daily schedule.
From there, read a chapter a day and as you come across bits of scripture (I call them treasures, corny I know!) record them in your notebook. You may even want to include the date that you found it as well as the chapter and verse. From there take the treasures that you found during that time and gradually incorporate them into your prayer time, again another discussion for another day.
Hope this helps, if you want more recommendations there are many suggestions online that you can look at. There are also Bible reading plans listed in most Bibles, so you may want to check yours to see if you have one.
Find your place and time of day and get started! It's too simple not to do it, if you've got 15 minutes you can do it!!!
This stretching and learning, I believe, is the beginning of what a gymnast must endure if she or he desires to be the best. She must practice daily in order to move up in the ranks; to improve enough to move to the next level and that only comes when your coach approves and recommends it. (I am learning all of this as we are new to gymnastics so if you have any input on the gymnastics world please leave me a comment so that I know exactly what this insanity is that my kids have gotten me into!!) Anyway, so the quicker a gymnast improves the quicker she moves up and then the higher she moves up the more hours per week she spends at the gym perfecting her skills. So eventually to be among the best, she is spending the better part of her life at the gym and she's committed to this sport in a way she probably never thought was possible. Quite the commitment if I do say so myself!
Practice makes perfect....or does it? How about practice makes a habit that gradually ebbs and flows into a routine or a way of life? That's essentially what she's done, right? She's made gymnastics such a vital part of her life that it has become more of her life's daily routine instead of just a simple practice session that she attends each day or week.
That's kinda what God wants... He would rather you strive to practice more not to be perfect but to eventually come to the place where your practice has ebbed and flowed into a heart felt daily routine. A routine that does not have you concerned with striving for perfection but instead with sitting at the feet of true perfection! His feet.
I had a friend comment this week that she knew how to pray but didn't know how to have a quiet time. I am beginning to find that some people have been led to believe that these two things are one in the same. In my opinion, they are not. The way I see it is that there is a prayer time and a quiet time (some people may also refer to this as their devotional time). Prayer time, for me, is strictly what it sounds like, a time of prayer. But we'll discuss this later!
For me, a quiet time and how I explain it to others is this, it's a time to get into your Bible whether you pick a book to start with or you have a devotional book to guide your time. This time is going to require some effort on your part. You have to open the pages of your Bible and begin to explore what's on the inside. The pages are full of stories that you wouldn't believe unless you read them yourself! Once you begin to read it you begin to see the way that God desires for us to live out our lives. You begin to see that He had a plan when He created each one of us and that we weren't just dropped here on Earth to fend for ourselves. Isn't that a relief?! It's amazing the things you'll find when you finally pick it up and begin to read.
So how does gymnastics relate to a quiet time??
They both require practice and this practice can produce some pretty amazing results over time. Just like a beginner gymnast can't do a full layout (I don't even know what that is but it sounds really hard!) her first day in the gym, we can't experience everything there is to know about God the first time we open our Bible. It's simple, the more we get into God's Word (practice) the more we learn (or move from level to level). The more we learn scripture the more we are able to pray His words (scripture also called the written word) over the situations that are going on in our lives and the lives of those people around us. Someone once said that there is power in the spoken Word and during this season of my life I have never believed it more!
So how do I get started?
It's easy, I promise! First, find a time in your day that you can be alone without distraction. It may help to put it on your daily calendar for a while until it becomes a part of your daily activities.
Bring your Bible, a pen/pencil and a notebook (a good cup of coffee is an added bonus if you can swing it!). I would start with the Book of Proverbs because it's very easy to understand and it's divided up into 31 chapters. With 31 chapters, you can do a chapter a day for a whole month which is just about how long it takes to incorporate something into your daily schedule.
From there, read a chapter a day and as you come across bits of scripture (I call them treasures, corny I know!) record them in your notebook. You may even want to include the date that you found it as well as the chapter and verse. From there take the treasures that you found during that time and gradually incorporate them into your prayer time, again another discussion for another day.
Hope this helps, if you want more recommendations there are many suggestions online that you can look at. There are also Bible reading plans listed in most Bibles, so you may want to check yours to see if you have one.
Find your place and time of day and get started! It's too simple not to do it, if you've got 15 minutes you can do it!!!
Monday, January 11, 2010
Dinner Time Conversation
If your house is anything like ours then you know dinnertime can be CRAZY!!!! Our conversations frequently consist of: "PLEASE, sit in you seat the right way!!! Please eat your dinner!!" "Stop messing around at the table!"
Sound familiar??
To put it lightly, dinnertime is one of the most stressful parts of the day for me. Partly because I spend all this time cooking and preparing dinner that may or may not be eaten but more than that is the chaos that ensues when we actually sit down to eat it. It would get so crazy some evenings that our kids would actually have to get up from the kitchen table and run the stairs. Yes, you read that correctly, we would make our kids run the stairs to get out all of their extra energy so that hopefully they could sit and eat!
Don't think that this is some inhumane punishment that we inflict on our kids they actually really like it and there's laughter and craziness the whole time, so in other words it totally backfired! Nuts, I know! Clearly it became a game the very first time we did it because the next night they actually asked if they could run the steps in the middle of dinner. Brings new meaning to the term "the witching hour."
So the other night, I tried something new. Instead of trying to get them to settle down and eat, I began to ask them questions. The key was that they couldn't answer unless they were eating and they had to wait their turn. A friend had given me a book of questions called "Love Talks for Families" by Gary Chapman and Ramon Presson. It had been sitting in the top of my closet for years waiting for the perfect opportunity to make it's appearance. To be perfectly honest, I think it moved with us from Atlanta to Dothan and then from Dothan to Franklin. The copyright is 2002 so I have clearly had this treasure for quite some time!
So last week it made it's debut at the Brady dinner table and it was quite the success. It was such a success that they have asked for it each night. We ask two questions a night and everyone has a turn to answer each question. The questions have for sure sparked our creativity and imaginations and have made for GREAT conversations that all six of us can participate in.
Everyone is sitting in their seats, no one is getting in trouble and everyone is eating their dinner. It's total dinner bliss to say the least! Who knew something like this could restore such order?! Amazing!!!
Here's just a sample of what you'll find in this little book:
"If you had to give up sight, hearing, the ability to speak, or the ability to walk, which would you choose?"
"If at the end of every day you were granted an extra hour to do anything you wanted, how would you regularly spend that hour?"
There are so many more questions, 101 to be exact, these are just a few that we have talked about so far. The answers have been anything from funny to totally creative in explaining why they would give up the ability to speak (shocking because they are constantly talking ALL the TIME!).
If you can get your hands on this book, I highly recommend it! It could be just what your family needs to make it through the chaos of dinner and who knows what you might learn from your kids in the process. They're sure to blow you away with the things they say and this book has the questions to make sure they do!
Sound familiar??
To put it lightly, dinnertime is one of the most stressful parts of the day for me. Partly because I spend all this time cooking and preparing dinner that may or may not be eaten but more than that is the chaos that ensues when we actually sit down to eat it. It would get so crazy some evenings that our kids would actually have to get up from the kitchen table and run the stairs. Yes, you read that correctly, we would make our kids run the stairs to get out all of their extra energy so that hopefully they could sit and eat!
Don't think that this is some inhumane punishment that we inflict on our kids they actually really like it and there's laughter and craziness the whole time, so in other words it totally backfired! Nuts, I know! Clearly it became a game the very first time we did it because the next night they actually asked if they could run the steps in the middle of dinner. Brings new meaning to the term "the witching hour."
So the other night, I tried something new. Instead of trying to get them to settle down and eat, I began to ask them questions. The key was that they couldn't answer unless they were eating and they had to wait their turn. A friend had given me a book of questions called "Love Talks for Families" by Gary Chapman and Ramon Presson. It had been sitting in the top of my closet for years waiting for the perfect opportunity to make it's appearance. To be perfectly honest, I think it moved with us from Atlanta to Dothan and then from Dothan to Franklin. The copyright is 2002 so I have clearly had this treasure for quite some time!
So last week it made it's debut at the Brady dinner table and it was quite the success. It was such a success that they have asked for it each night. We ask two questions a night and everyone has a turn to answer each question. The questions have for sure sparked our creativity and imaginations and have made for GREAT conversations that all six of us can participate in.
Everyone is sitting in their seats, no one is getting in trouble and everyone is eating their dinner. It's total dinner bliss to say the least! Who knew something like this could restore such order?! Amazing!!!
Here's just a sample of what you'll find in this little book:
"If you had to give up sight, hearing, the ability to speak, or the ability to walk, which would you choose?"
"If at the end of every day you were granted an extra hour to do anything you wanted, how would you regularly spend that hour?"
There are so many more questions, 101 to be exact, these are just a few that we have talked about so far. The answers have been anything from funny to totally creative in explaining why they would give up the ability to speak (shocking because they are constantly talking ALL the TIME!).
If you can get your hands on this book, I highly recommend it! It could be just what your family needs to make it through the chaos of dinner and who knows what you might learn from your kids in the process. They're sure to blow you away with the things they say and this book has the questions to make sure they do!
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Let me take a moment to explain before I get on with my post. Church Lady is not a name that I gave myself, it's one that a friend of mine gave me a little while back. She referred to me in a conversation as "the church lady" one afternoon when we were sitting on her front porch and she now calls me that from time to time. I think she meant it in a good humored way, at least I hope she did! Anyway, so that's where the name came from just in case you were thinking that I had a strange connection to the character from Saturday Night Live (is that showing my age?!).
So here's the confession part....you're hoping for something dark and scary aren't you? Something that you would want to run and tell all your best girl friends I'm sure. So here goes....I have had a cleaning lady for the better part of my almost 14 year marriage. Riveting and shocking I know..... I have loved each one that I have had; yes there have been many over the years. So many in fact that I cannot name them all.
For years, I attributed the importance of a good cleaning lady to the fact that it would give me time to play with my kids and do the other things in my life that were more important than taking responsibility for the mess that I would make in my own home. Besides, it was providing someone with much needed income and in each case it did. So for years each week or every other week, what ever the case might have been, I would have someone come to clean my house. It was fabulous to say the least!!!!
So what's the big deal???
I gave up my cleaning lady habit!!!! I confess that it was a little emotional for me (yes, you read that correctly!). But I did it. Why?
For a couple of reasons and for one that I didn't realize until I was cleaning my house myself the other day. For years my "weekly habit" was enabling me. It was enabling me to make a mess and not worry about totally cleaning it up (after all "E" would be here in a few days); it was enabling me to nap each day (yes, I nap!!!); but worst of all was what it was teaching my children! Let's stop here for a moment....
If you have a cleaning lady, I am happy for you and glad that you have one. I am not judging you or trying to put the cleaning business out of business. Heaven knows we all need work right now and if this is your way of making ends meet, then you go and clean to your hearts content for any family that will have you! Let me reiterate my point from earlier, I love me a good cleaning lady!!!!!
So back to my discovery....
My kids are at the ages where they began to realize that if they made a mess, our cleaning lady "E" would clean it up for them because she would on the days that she was here. I then discovered that they didn't know how to clean, short off putting clothes in the hamper and making their beds. Why should they? They rarely saw me do it! (No wonder my sisters think I'm the prissy one!) A stark contrast to what I saw growing up...we had a period of time where my mom cleaned houses (how's that for irony?!).
So the change....
I would LOVE to say that I voluntarily did this but that was not the case. It was something that I felt was the right thing to do for my family and my husband happily agreed if not encouraged. So, I canceled my service at the beginning of the year (I know that was only 2 weeks ago!).
I now clean my house and the kids clean the upstairs with me since this is their territory. We dust, change sheets, clean bathrooms and floors together and it is so rewarding!!! We have a system and thankfully everyone truly has a favorite job that they like to do. When it's finished, we've accomplished something BIG together and the kids have learned a new skill! The help actually makes it less of a burden and not so stressful.
If you haven't involved your kids in the cleaning process, I urge you to do so before it's too late and their brains turn to mush (ours were on the verge!). Or even worse, they think there will always be someone there to clean up after them! I may have lost some time with my oldest but hopefully there's still a small glimmer of hope there (the same grip that you have with a Wii remote can also be used to grip the handle of a vacuum cleaner!).
So to those that have always cleaned their own houses, "you go with your bad selves!" I have now joined you and hope I'm better for it, if not me then at least my kids will be for learning the simple art of dusting.
If you are in this same situation and need help recovering from your cleaning lady addiction I am totally with you and here to help :-) .
So here's the confession part....you're hoping for something dark and scary aren't you? Something that you would want to run and tell all your best girl friends I'm sure. So here goes....I have had a cleaning lady for the better part of my almost 14 year marriage. Riveting and shocking I know..... I have loved each one that I have had; yes there have been many over the years. So many in fact that I cannot name them all.
For years, I attributed the importance of a good cleaning lady to the fact that it would give me time to play with my kids and do the other things in my life that were more important than taking responsibility for the mess that I would make in my own home. Besides, it was providing someone with much needed income and in each case it did. So for years each week or every other week, what ever the case might have been, I would have someone come to clean my house. It was fabulous to say the least!!!!
So what's the big deal???
I gave up my cleaning lady habit!!!! I confess that it was a little emotional for me (yes, you read that correctly!). But I did it. Why?
For a couple of reasons and for one that I didn't realize until I was cleaning my house myself the other day. For years my "weekly habit" was enabling me. It was enabling me to make a mess and not worry about totally cleaning it up (after all "E" would be here in a few days); it was enabling me to nap each day (yes, I nap!!!); but worst of all was what it was teaching my children! Let's stop here for a moment....
If you have a cleaning lady, I am happy for you and glad that you have one. I am not judging you or trying to put the cleaning business out of business. Heaven knows we all need work right now and if this is your way of making ends meet, then you go and clean to your hearts content for any family that will have you! Let me reiterate my point from earlier, I love me a good cleaning lady!!!!!
So back to my discovery....
My kids are at the ages where they began to realize that if they made a mess, our cleaning lady "E" would clean it up for them because she would on the days that she was here. I then discovered that they didn't know how to clean, short off putting clothes in the hamper and making their beds. Why should they? They rarely saw me do it! (No wonder my sisters think I'm the prissy one!) A stark contrast to what I saw growing up...we had a period of time where my mom cleaned houses (how's that for irony?!).
So the change....
I would LOVE to say that I voluntarily did this but that was not the case. It was something that I felt was the right thing to do for my family and my husband happily agreed if not encouraged. So, I canceled my service at the beginning of the year (I know that was only 2 weeks ago!).
I now clean my house and the kids clean the upstairs with me since this is their territory. We dust, change sheets, clean bathrooms and floors together and it is so rewarding!!! We have a system and thankfully everyone truly has a favorite job that they like to do. When it's finished, we've accomplished something BIG together and the kids have learned a new skill! The help actually makes it less of a burden and not so stressful.
If you haven't involved your kids in the cleaning process, I urge you to do so before it's too late and their brains turn to mush (ours were on the verge!). Or even worse, they think there will always be someone there to clean up after them! I may have lost some time with my oldest but hopefully there's still a small glimmer of hope there (the same grip that you have with a Wii remote can also be used to grip the handle of a vacuum cleaner!).
So to those that have always cleaned their own houses, "you go with your bad selves!" I have now joined you and hope I'm better for it, if not me then at least my kids will be for learning the simple art of dusting.
If you are in this same situation and need help recovering from your cleaning lady addiction I am totally with you and here to help :-) .
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Bible Study is starting soon!
If you live in the Franklin or surrounding area we would love for you to join us!!!!
We are going through Ruth: Loss, Love and Legacy by Kelly Minter starting Thursday, January 21st. We'll meet each Thursday evening from 7:00 until 9:00 at Cumberland Church on Franklin Road for seven weeks.
All you need to do is grab a copy of the book from either a LifeWay store near you or Kelly Minter's website and show up!!! There's no outside cost this time around, and registration is simple. Send an email to kristen@cumberlandonline.org to let me know you're coming just so I have an idea of how many women to expect. Please feel free to invite your friends, this is for ALL women, not just those that attend Cumberland!!
We are going through Ruth: Loss, Love and Legacy by Kelly Minter starting Thursday, January 21st. We'll meet each Thursday evening from 7:00 until 9:00 at Cumberland Church on Franklin Road for seven weeks.
All you need to do is grab a copy of the book from either a LifeWay store near you or Kelly Minter's website and show up!!! There's no outside cost this time around, and registration is simple. Send an email to kristen@cumberlandonline.org to let me know you're coming just so I have an idea of how many women to expect. Please feel free to invite your friends, this is for ALL women, not just those that attend Cumberland!!
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Need Your Help!
Good Morning!! I have been continually reminded over the last two days of how unique and different all of my "little snowflakes" are. Hope you have as well!
Anyway...I'm working on something and I'm in need of some help. Many of my friends have approached me about Bible studies for their young girls. So in an effort to help them but not let too much out of the bag at the moment, here's the questions that I want to ask.....
1. What do you know about God now that you wish you knew when you were a kid (say between the ages of 8 and 12)?
2. What do you think is the biggest struggle for girls in this age range (day to day not necessarily spiritually)?
3. Do you go on "dates" with your daughter? If so, what do you guys enjoy doing the most?
If you don't have any answers that's not a problem, I just thought I'd ask.. Please let me know if you have any additional questions or comments that I haven't thought of yet. You can comment on this post or send me an email!
Thanks for your help and I'll continue to "spill the beans" a little bit more each week!!!!
Have a great day and enjoy your snowflakes whether it be your friends or your kiddos!!!!
Anyway...I'm working on something and I'm in need of some help. Many of my friends have approached me about Bible studies for their young girls. So in an effort to help them but not let too much out of the bag at the moment, here's the questions that I want to ask.....
1. What do you know about God now that you wish you knew when you were a kid (say between the ages of 8 and 12)?
2. What do you think is the biggest struggle for girls in this age range (day to day not necessarily spiritually)?
3. Do you go on "dates" with your daughter? If so, what do you guys enjoy doing the most?
If you don't have any answers that's not a problem, I just thought I'd ask.. Please let me know if you have any additional questions or comments that I haven't thought of yet. You can comment on this post or send me an email!
Thanks for your help and I'll continue to "spill the beans" a little bit more each week!!!!
Have a great day and enjoy your snowflakes whether it be your friends or your kiddos!!!!
Monday, January 4, 2010
Snowflakes....
Happy New Year(as if you haven't heard that 5 thousand times all ready!!). As you can tell, I took some time off but I'm back...
The morning sky is spitting snow flurries today, which my children excitedly take for snow flakes. Two totally different things to adults but to kids they're one in the same. But none the less, they bring excitement and the hope that school will be canceled.
So my daughter, Claire, and I were looking out the window into the backyard this morning looking at the snow falling. When she made a very simple but profound statement. She said:"Mom, do you see the snow on the top of the thing that holds the hose? If you look very closely at the snow flakes (that have landed there), you will see that they are all different."
They are all different....
Now Claire has not realized the profound statement that she has made to her mother, nor did she have any idea that it would end up as the start to a blog post! But here goes...
God used this moment for me to remember that though women may appear similar on the outside they are a total "one-of-a-kind" on the inside. In ministering to them whether it be through coordinating Bible studies, bringing a meal, or just being a friend they all require a unique and specific approach. There is no "one size fits all" mentality here, there can't be! We were all fearfully and wonderfully made by God with qualities unique to how He made us for the purpose that He has called us to.
Think about your friends... Do you interact the same way with each friend in your circle of relationships? I thought I did until I really started to think about it... See what you find to be true for you.
There's more.....
My kids!!! For so long I've wanted them to be predictable (you know you want that to, otherwise we wouldn't try so hard to get babies on a schedule!!!). How much simpler would life be if your kids (in my case 4!) were predictable like the snow flurries (flakes, if you're a kid at heart!!). When they begin falling down you pretty much know that they're going to land on the ground somewhere. They look pretty similar to one another in size and shape on the outside. They'll generally last as long as it stays cold enough and then they'll melt when it gets warmer. Again, don't you wish your kids were that predictable?!
OK, maybe not that predictable....
Claire's profound statement rings true again. While my kids appear very similar on the outside (have you seen my kids?), the truth is is that they're totally different on the inside. There's for sure not a one-size fits all category for parenting this crazy brood of kids!! So I'm reminded again, that when I look at what's on the inside (figuratively speaking of course because my 7 year old would totally want to do that!!!) my four are completely and totally different. They're created with different talents, goals, tastes, dispositions, and range of emotions just to name a few. For instance, my "spicy" one is also my most nurturing and caring while my laid back one is the most imaginative. So the best plan of discipline for Tucker is not the best for Jack nor the best plan for Claire nor for Ellie. The talents that need to be nurtured in one are not the same for the others. You get the picture here I'm sure!!! Do you have some "snowflakes" at home that you need to reexamine? I know I do!!!
So snow flakes are beautiful falling from the sky together but they're extraordinary when you stop to look at how different they truly are!
The morning sky is spitting snow flurries today, which my children excitedly take for snow flakes. Two totally different things to adults but to kids they're one in the same. But none the less, they bring excitement and the hope that school will be canceled.
So my daughter, Claire, and I were looking out the window into the backyard this morning looking at the snow falling. When she made a very simple but profound statement. She said:"Mom, do you see the snow on the top of the thing that holds the hose? If you look very closely at the snow flakes (that have landed there), you will see that they are all different."
They are all different....
Now Claire has not realized the profound statement that she has made to her mother, nor did she have any idea that it would end up as the start to a blog post! But here goes...
God used this moment for me to remember that though women may appear similar on the outside they are a total "one-of-a-kind" on the inside. In ministering to them whether it be through coordinating Bible studies, bringing a meal, or just being a friend they all require a unique and specific approach. There is no "one size fits all" mentality here, there can't be! We were all fearfully and wonderfully made by God with qualities unique to how He made us for the purpose that He has called us to.
Think about your friends... Do you interact the same way with each friend in your circle of relationships? I thought I did until I really started to think about it... See what you find to be true for you.
There's more.....
My kids!!! For so long I've wanted them to be predictable (you know you want that to, otherwise we wouldn't try so hard to get babies on a schedule!!!). How much simpler would life be if your kids (in my case 4!) were predictable like the snow flurries (flakes, if you're a kid at heart!!). When they begin falling down you pretty much know that they're going to land on the ground somewhere. They look pretty similar to one another in size and shape on the outside. They'll generally last as long as it stays cold enough and then they'll melt when it gets warmer. Again, don't you wish your kids were that predictable?!
OK, maybe not that predictable....
Claire's profound statement rings true again. While my kids appear very similar on the outside (have you seen my kids?), the truth is is that they're totally different on the inside. There's for sure not a one-size fits all category for parenting this crazy brood of kids!! So I'm reminded again, that when I look at what's on the inside (figuratively speaking of course because my 7 year old would totally want to do that!!!) my four are completely and totally different. They're created with different talents, goals, tastes, dispositions, and range of emotions just to name a few. For instance, my "spicy" one is also my most nurturing and caring while my laid back one is the most imaginative. So the best plan of discipline for Tucker is not the best for Jack nor the best plan for Claire nor for Ellie. The talents that need to be nurtured in one are not the same for the others. You get the picture here I'm sure!!! Do you have some "snowflakes" at home that you need to reexamine? I know I do!!!
So snow flakes are beautiful falling from the sky together but they're extraordinary when you stop to look at how different they truly are!
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